In most cases, yes, a penis of 4 inches is too small, especially if that’s the size of your penis when it is erect (hard). A penis of 4 inches is too small if you would like to have sex in the missionary position (man on top). I’ve surveyed many women by posting polls on various forums, and also based on a personal experience, a 4 inch penis is not enough to do the job. It may be nice to some women at first, but as time goes by, your woman’s vagina will start to loosen up a bit, and this can be bad news for you. In the long run, this can usually lead to your woman being generally unhappy and unsatisfied, and eventually cheating on you. What hurts the most is the fact that, the truth is, the sight of a bigger penis will arouse any woman. Most women, once coming across a big penis, will greet it in disbelief. They will hold it, stare at it, and utter words that will only arouse the beholders ego, “wow.. It’s so… big..” – Any guy would love to hear that.
This is however not the same for men with smaller penises. In most cases, even if you are with a nice, caring woman who understands, no woman can deny that a big penis turns them on. That’s when you start to think and feel sorry for yourself. “What if she finds someone better? What if a guy with a bigger penis comes along one day?” – Any man can just come along and show your woman what she’s missing out on. Chances are, if you are her first boyfriend, or the first person she’s had sex with, she will think your penis is “big” because she hasn’t seen any other penises to compare. And when a man with something more to offer comes into the picture, that’s when we really start to worry, get jealous, and even become defensive and controlling. After a while, it starts to really affect our thought patterns and how we perceive things. We generally start to become paranoid, and this can often lead many men into becoming even more insecure with themselves, and even worse, it may lead to breakup, and giving up on the relationship at hand.
This can also be a problem in many real life situations, especially when you are meeting a new girl, or your girlfriend, or if she decides to invite you over to her place, or who knows, she may even decide to invite HERSELF over to YOUR place. But, either way, this can be very frustrating, and possibly the most frustrating situation any male could be in.
Sometimes unexpected things happen. What you thought would be an innocent get together turns out to be your worst nightmare. Things somehow start to heat up a little bit, and the tension between the two of you starts to rise, and before you know it, you both start kissing passionately, until she utters those words that drive any male off the roof, “I can’t take it anymore, let’s have sex now!”
Wow, hold on, wait a minute!
You find yourself getting highly aroused and all you really want to do at that moment is to have sex with her, but that’s exactly when the painful realizations start to sink in. That’s when you find yourself coming back to your senses and your insecurity starts to really take over. Questions like, “will she laugh when she sees my penis?”, “will the size of my penis turn her off and ultimately kill the mood for both of us?”, and, “what if she tells other people how small my penis is!?” start to fill your mind and take over you. You then make the embarrassing decision to back out and use any excuse you can think of. You can’t
Thousands of men who are about to get lucky find themselves in this exact same situation everyday! And for most of us out there who are put in this situation, it’s exceedingly hard to stomach what we missed out on, and we tend to feel sorry for ourselves and beat ourselves up about it. It’s a horrible truth that many of us have to come by, but I just want to tell you that, although things may seem hopeless, there is hope, and there IS something you can do about it!